We try to visit at least once a year. We went the weekend of July 4th for the family reunion. It was a blast. We probably doubled the population of Ingram that weekend, which isn't that difficult. The registered population is listed at 76. Yes, seventy-six. We went up again last weekend for "Ingram Days." The town celebration is held the first weekend in August each year and boasts a softball tournament, a sand volleyball tournament, a horseshoe tournament, a pie-and-ice-cream sale, chicken and other food stuffs for sale at the ball park, a parade, and various other activities hosted by the town's four bars. Yes, four bars for 76 people, or one bar for every 19 people.
So, what do we do while we are there besides visit all the bars, have some chicken, watch some sports tournaments, and watch the parade (during which at least one "float" will hand out beer to the bystanders)?
Well, on an average weekend we spend in Ingram, we will head into nearby Glen Flora to eat a fantastic breakfast at Jae Dee's - fluffy pancakes with locally-made, FRESH maple syrup in squeeze bottles! We will also head over to Tee-A-Way Golf outside of Ladysmith for nine holes, and we might stop by West Cove Lanes next door for bowling.
We almost always head into downtown Ladysmith to catch whatever movie they are showing (yes, movie - as in one screen) for $5 each. We once had to wait for the local Little Miss Rusk County pageant to end before we could see the movie. Also, during a long movie (2 + hours), the projectionist (who also sells the tickets and the refreshments) will stop the film at the half-way point and announce that we are taking a 15-minute intermission so we may use the facilities and get refills on our drinks. It's awesome. Last weekend we saw "Despicable Me."
A trip is not complete without a visit to the Ladysmith Dairy Queen, which by the way is open all year. On a girls' weekend to Ingram with JR's sisters and some friends in late January, 2008, we all suited up, warmed up the cars for 30 minutes, and headed into town to have some ice cream - it was 37 degrees BELOW zero. That was good ice cream.
We will usually have a breakfast or a dinner one day out of the weekend at Hilltop Bar and Restaurant. It's across the street from JR's older sister's summer house, the street being Highway 8. We will likely have a dinner at Horseshoe Bar, as well - great fish fries on Fridays. We might grab a burger at Antlers Bar & Tavern for lunch one day, and we like to go to The Bar for karaoke on Saturday nights.
If several family members are in town, we'll have a fire pit at JR's middle sister's summer home roaring into the wee hours while we laugh and talk and sing and act silly all night long. JR also can't miss a ride on the ATVs.
Overall, the weekends we spend in the North woods are relaxing and fun. My mom wonders why I can enjoy myself up there so much when I left the farm back in Tennessee kicking and screaming. I remind her that I still like to come visit home, too - it is very relaxing and fun as well. Then she reminds me that I said I was going to retire to Ingram one day and asks how I could stand that if I didn't want to live in the country in Tennessee. I look her square in the eyes and say, "76 people. Four bars."
